A female reader, , writes 3 February 2012 : My personal opinion is that if you really don't want to be around his family, because his sister is verbally abusive, then you have every right not to go.
He has so much nerve doing that when my daughter does so much to help out compared to his kids who are way older.
He read this thread and didn't say anything for a few minutes.
It hurts me so much because we have a 2 year old together and I know I do more for him and treat him better than his exes have.
He has a responsibility to his girlfriend.
Our life has revolved around their needs for almost the entire relationship now, and become progressively more of an issue.