Let's be honest, there are a few other tests around that claim to be able to identify your dominant language of love. You will discover your primary an secondary love languages. While fancy gifts and kindly spoken words are nice, you'd trade them any day for uninterrupted together time. He also scored in Quality Time and Physical Touch. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. This language relies heavily on doing things to keep the balance, and acknowledgement of when the other is doing a great job.
We are deeply drawn to exploring and exposing both the light and shadow side of human nature and spirituality. You love their encouragement and verbal support and save their cards and love notes as some of your most precious items. Thoughtful with your desire to surprise them with gifts, big or small. You might just find some serious clarity in the way you view yourself and your significant other. I enjoy extended trips with you. We all have our own ways of expressing our love and preferred ways of receiving love.
Start viewing your friends through a new lens, trying to pinpoint their love language and expressing your gratitude for them in that way. He loves to take care of me and our dogs and enjoys being taken care of as well. This is a great article that gives you romantic ideas and suggestions under each of the love language headings. Before I dive into the results I did want to address the way Paul and I communicate. But it's actually more true than you think, according to marriage counselor Dr. To be nurtured with a home cooked meal.
At the same time, you find yourself expressing your feelings of gratitude, remorse or love through a little gift, too. Quality Time If this is your love language, that means you love having your partner's undivided attention and you just want to spend as much time with him talking, hanging out, or doing activities together. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Love Language 5: Physical Touch For some people, nothing says I love you like a little nookie. I thought it was more of an expression than an actual test you take with results based on your personality. You love it when your partner's mobile phone is turned off or they sacrifice other important activities to spend time with you. Don't cheat, as you want to get the most out of The Five Love Languages Quiz.
We have been married more than 40 years. If we were arguing and we started calling each other names that would be different and disrespectful. I like to receive notes of affirmation from you. What makes you feel most loved? Mateo Sol is a prominent psychospiritual counselor and mentor whose work has influenced the lives of thousands of people worldwide. Buy Audio Buy Book Buy Book Not sure how to make sense of this? When you hit a rough patch in your relationship, what seems to be the most out of balance? You prefer your partner to give you their time over their words, a love letter, or spending an hour making a homemade dinner for you. You always notice when they are thoughtful and put themself out to assist you, even if you could do those things yourself. Couples need to feel as through they're working together and they can count on each other to be on their side.
To him that is the ultimate way to show love. To find out which love language resonates the most with you, take the quiz below: 1. It was pretty eye-opening for me to take the test even though we both know this about each other. When it comes to love, feelings can often get lost in translation. Obviously, you want to work little bits of all of these languages into your relationship, but knowing each other's primary language can be helpful in making sure you're satisfying one another. You had a long, hard day at work.
I like to be together when we do things. Your partner should show that he remembered a special date, or that he had just thought of you and wanted to get you something nice. If you mainly chose E, your love language is physical touch. To ask you what happened, and provide words of encouragement. You can learn each other's love languages, and then you'll have a bigger repertoire. Instead of believing that we're on different sides, let's just learn to celebrate our differences.
You are encouraged to think carefully and do your own research. There's such simplicity in its message, but I feel like it's so powerful. A long embrace, followed by a sweet kiss. Most problems in our relationships with other people come from speaking in different love languages, whether that be with your partner, friend or even child. Why not both do this test and then share results with one another! I feel close when we are talking or doing something together. Take the 5 Love Languages ® official assessment to discover your love language and begin improving your relationships.